Sunday, January 27, 2008

First LOVE NEVER dies! says WHO?

Is this really true that our first love never dies?

Hmmmm...all first love, i pressume that this is so
special, that can't be explain, am i right?
For me, first love wasn't the first fling or the puppy love we had. In my experience, falling in love doesn't mean that that's really the real love. Am so much in love but you don't know if it's the hubby of mine or someone very special over the rainbow? *wink! Waaahhh... a bit complicated to explain.
Dinner at home for 2. This is their entré, sallad w/ peta cheese & cheese rolls******************

Well, I don't think so. If you loved someone for the first time really hard, you will just stay friends after the relationship. I don't think the first one is the real one. First love may never die, but it can wander off. Things change and people change and people drift apart. The old feelings may still remain.
Main course - Marinated pork fondue w/ redwine sause, bearnesause & potatoes of their taste **********************
Recently, my sweet 16 yr old daughter celebrated the 1st year anniversary w/ her BF and 2 weeks later, they splitted. GEEEE!!! i was devastated too. I can't imagine one's child came and cried, body shaked and asked help bout her feelings? Really hard to see her tears falling down on her cheeks. How to explain to a 16 yr old that boy's will come & go?
******Fruit cake DESSERT made 4 the lovebirds****************

I was devastated & proud of myself that i handled to stay as calm as a lamb. When I was in her age, i can't say anything about my feelings towards boy's in my age. My mum was a bit of a tiger claws! So, in times of love & sadness? No way to share to her, or else "patay kang bata ka!".

What can you advice? Anything positive can make my day life easier.



IrishPinay said...

Ms. Swefil,

Ang hirap talaga ng buhay no? That was our time. I am very proud of you by giving her your full support.

Cute naman? You are so good mum, that i can see. Not many mum's will give their daughter's a lil freedom.

Keep up always that good work. ALways support her in everything.

Tell her that things will be alright and more nice, cute boys will come & go. Tell her that she is very beautiful. No hurry, babe

Denzel/USA said...

Hi Ms. Swefil

I trully understand the feelings of a teen losing the first ever love! It hurts but life must go on.

Doesn't mean that it's the end of the world, right? As a mother, i am proud to hear that you were calm. I know it isn't easy to handle such complicated feelings.

Tell your lovely daughter that if they really mean for each other, at the end of that rainbow, their paths may lead to a happy ending.

You are a such nice mum I ever encounter in real life, even just through the net. Keep up the good work.

swefil said...

Ms IrishPinay,

TY for always for reading and leaving some good comments to help sort out my mind.

The only thing i can offer to such a good daughter, is her to be happy.

Stay where you are and keep reading.

swefil said...

Hello Mr. USA

TY for dropping in and leave some good words. Appreciated lots!

I guess, everything goes well w/ Lizah though. She's really a star.

Keep dropping by!

edz said...

hi tita igz,
good to keep the communication open.... i remember my childhood days, sa akong katabian, hibalo jud tanan akong mama.... kaso lang, tungod sa iyang ka-very good listener .... ako man ang natalaw oi.... na^, wa jud ko kauyab atong panahona.....ako na lang hinuon ang nalingaw niya kay mora ug sya pa mas excited kong nakit-an nya akong crush-crush kuno.... hehehhe

and really, don't worry tita.... you're d best! keep on supporting u'r baby girl.....she'll appreciate you for everything, u'll see..... lang , tita igs, still good to remember those good ol innocent days.....

keep on writing!

tita igs said...

Edzzz! yamat uyamot my kababayan.

Ikaw ra jud diay akong avid fan no?

Sus kow oi! life is just a wheel man jud, saons. Maayo diay imong mader kay murag ako. Ako gani, moy gakirig- kirig og naka-halok na siya.

My time, wasn't that fancy but that was my time. I can't stay as and look back the past. Mao bitaw nga am much open.

Na hala oi! tulog nako ha? Hugs to your mahals.

C you around and more advices.

swefil said...

The kids are in good terms again. When I asked them, if they're together again, U know what the answer was? "sorta"...

Hmmm...another twisted feelings. Friends won't give a hard kiss, eh?

So, readers, can we call it "OFF" or "ON?".