Sorry if i didn't hanged on! Well, this is the light for the season!
Dec. 2 was the first sunday of advent. In Sweden, having this advent candle settings is very popular tradition. In every candle lightened is means Christmas Day countdown. LOL*
I made my own settings. It's more nice and very natural me. I love glitters and much sophisticated. This year, i choose silver, white & green. White means for me PEACE, silver TRANQUILITY & green is FRUITFUL...these are the 3 keywords in my coming 2008.
See you nxt candle lighted!
Saturday, December 8, 2007
2 more weeks we'll celebrate our Christ birth. As christians, we have some ways celebrating this season.
In the Philippines, it was funny when December months comes. Families will change their 10pesos to small denominations, cause lots of kids do carolling.
Yeah! from the starts feels cool...but then, the next evening, same kids come back & sing the same christmas song just to have some more coins.
Hmmmm...am one of them! but hey! during my time, when we go carolling, we really do our best shot. We practiced the songs properly and even had some dances.
Am not sure nowadays, nothing we're serious anymore. During my time, doing carolling, you must have a permit from our municipality. Seems that kids abuse the spirit of the serenity, eh?
I was annoyed at the end cause hard to bare all the songs and sings unproperly. I even shouted out that "NO ONE'S HOME"...
Share your funny Christmas carol story!
Thursday, December 6, 2007
Hmmmm... an everlasting lad somewhere in my country told me that "HANG ON"!!!
Tough but life is merry... read this:
"THE UNBROKEN SILENCE IS NOW HEARD DIRECT FROM THE HEART...
THE LONGER YOU KEEP IT, THE PAINFUL IT IS...AND WITHOUT YOU KNOWING YOU ARE LOSING YOUR SELF-ESTEEM...IF A CERTAIN RELATIONSHIP IS NOT BUILDING US AS A PERSON, BETTER LET GO...IT IS NEVER MEANT FOR US BECAUSE IF IT IS...IT'S SUPPOSED TO GIVE US PEACE OF MIND AND HEART...LIFE IS A MEDLEY OF JOY AND SORROW...WE SHOULD BE ABLE TO SHIFT SMOOTHLY AND STILL BE AT TUNED...AND WE CAN HEAR THE BEST MELODY WE CAN EVER IMAGINE...LIFE IS STILL BEAUTIFUL MY FRIEND...KEEP HOLDING ON......LOVE YOU DEAR".
She might be right or wrong, but i actually realized, somehow that Life isn't sux... it might be ME who sux... No worries! am still hanging on, for the sake of everybody who loves me so dearly.
You...you...you...& many of YOU.
Thanks for all your support in spirit...IHD no matter what!
Wednesday, December 5, 2007
But here's some way to think more positive than just mumbling all the negative thoughts we have:
1) Look on the inside & try to focus positive things in your life
2) Prove those negative thoughts wrong. Think Mother Nature, she will be there for you.
3) Now for the outside. Hard to think, but hey! just feel your beautiful things about yourself. Find stuff that appeals to you.
4) Determine why your life sucks. What things make better. Make a few goals and try to find ways to get there. The first step is the hardest, getting help or admitting you need it.
5) Goal & motivation. I know it's hard to fullfill but keep thinking of those energy who gives you motivated.
6) Remember that this is only one part of your entire life. There will be a tomorrow. There will be a next week. There will be a next month and maybe by then, you'll be feeling better.
***You are in control of your life and though it might get worse, it'll get better eventually.
** To "go for it," simply get up and do it.
**After you think positively, your whole views change about the world and you tend to look on the other side.
** Talk to others about how you are feeling.
** If you feel something is lacking in your life, try giving back to others.
** An oft-forgotten piece of common sense... Everything you don't like about yourself is something that you can fix.
** Remember to be completely honest with yourself. The rest will follow.
BUT SEE ALWAYS UP THE BELOW:
** Don't get lost in self-pity. Remember you have the ability to change your outlook and your situation.
** Resist the urge to act out moods on those around you. Instead, write, confide in a friend, do something creative or physically active.
** If you feel persistantly sad, unmotivated, anxious, hopeless or fearful, seek professional help. You may be suffering from a mood disorder such as clinical depression.
Sunday, December 2, 2007
PLS. GIVE SOMETIMES A CHANCE TO READ BELOW::::
TO ALL PEOPLE WHO'S INVOLVE TO A PROHIBITED LOVE, A FORBIDDEN GAME!
EVERYBODY'S INVOLVE IN THIS LETTER OR AN ESSAY???
HOPE IT BROADEN YOUR MIND, AT LEAST!
The outburst of emotions was like lightning and thunder that even a small child could understand, so intense and fierce that assertions, hasty it may seem, were readied. There's so many changes in our lives could never be understood for so short a time. It's beyond compression, kind of like putting a square peg into a round hole. Passions run deep and high, like wildfire burning everything along its path, it must not fail to consider the changes within each of us whether such changes could sustain its vigor and excitement.
I read all messages over and over again trying to come to terms with what you are today. The amorous disasters and the escape from scarcity are what I believe your motivations. It made you the strong but lonely person you are now maybe because you failed to appreciate all of its aspects, seeing only the side which best fit yourself. Never been in love?... you had been in love but you'd rather not call it love because the experience made you cry. To hate those men/women who in one way or another made you smile is like hating yourself, as they will always be a part of you no matter how you try to delete them from memory. If we could only format and re-format ourselves like computers! to fit other operating systems! Love is what made us, will save us and will keep us strong as we travel this space we call life. Marrying for pecuniary material reasons?
Have you see you in such a distracted situation? If I were in his/her shoes I'd do the same. It is his/her GOD given right to protect you and all those precious to him/her. He/she loves you very much and I can feel it! I could not blame him/her if he/she has entertained the idea that I am dipping my hands into his/her cookie jar. Have you ever considered the years you have been together and suddenly you act so weird and so strange? He/she doesn't deserve this. He/she needs your love. He/she needs your compassion.
All the time I wanted to see my beautiful butterfly/caterpillar in gracious flight. I don' want to lose sight of his/her as it has been for thirty years. I love my butterfly/caterpillar so much that I want to see him/her happy wherever he/she maybe. I have taken that love into another level of existence beyond the indulgence of most people. Maybe we could not grow old together in these compelling circumstances, perhaps in another lifetime...