BIG or LITTLE... BROKEN TRUST or BROKEN PROMISES

FOR BETTER OR FOR WORST!

Before any trust can rebuild you must address how and or why it was broken in the first place. This is the time for brutal honesty. A complete confessional of how the trust was broken should only be done when you are both ready to hear it. Anyway there will be a massive amount of stress on relationship once the trust has been broken by lies or breaking promises.

Being lied to by someone you love and felt you could trust is very painful and frustrating. You love your partner, so you find yourself forgiving his/her lies the first time, perhaps the second and third time as well, before you realized you are just involved with a liar. However, because you feel strongly for this person, it is not easy for you to break away, even though you know that is probably what is best for you. You hang on, with hope that things will change and he will not lie to you anymore. You justify staying with him by telling yourself that he is a good person and deep down you know he loves you and that your relationship is wonderful and perfect except when he lies.
THEY'RE STILL TOGETHER FOR A COUPLE OF DECADES (she got secret but not lies, or ain't it?) BUANG JUD KO NO?

What you need to ask yourself when this happens is: Do you consider a wonderful relationship in which your partner lies to you? Is being lied to by a liar your idea of love and respect? When you are emotionally involved with someone, it is not always easy to ask and answer these logical questions. You often will make excuses for a liar, just to make yourself feel better about staying with someone who does not truly respect you. When your partner lies to you, it is because he does not respect you and is not as committed to the relationship as you would like to believe. Of course, there are different kinds of lies- little ones and big ones, but a lie is still a lie, no matter the size or reason for the lie. Look at it like this: if your partner can lie so easily over little things that are unnecessary to lie about, then you can be pretty sure that he/she will lie to you about bigger things that will really matter and damage the relationship.

I guess everyone makes mistake. Just learn how to fix it, also how u going to face the problem. Does he meant to do it or not?! I just consider...
Forgive is good ideal, for both side! Get back or not just another question.
THIS WAS THE 3rd TIMES AROUND FOR BONDING THEIR LIVES ETERNITY (lies lay beyond)

FORGIVE, FORGIVE & FORGET as long as there is still love.... as long as there is the tiniest bit of feeling left. There is enough to rebuild from the ground up, and to form a solid relationship with each other. The biggest portion of love is deep within the heart and will take a very long time to surface to let go.

Do you agree GUYS? Help me w/ some thoughts regarding the post...

FORGIVE EVERYBODY THIS COMING EASTER

GUYS!!!

Thanks a million that you're here w/ me and keep me alive. Another year, another Easter!

Keep your heart open for penance and be sure that everybody forgive everybody, whatever those grudges we had.

This is the 4th Easter am w/ U...and still am glad ur here w/ me. If your're invisible then give me more INVISIBLE EGGS!!!

Ha ha...thanks for being there for me and ALWAYS.

HAPPY EASTER!

BOOK LAUNCH/RELEASE PARTY

Yesterday, we were invited to a release party. It was amazing coz lots of people came to see & eager to buy her book!

Yes, she is Eva Dozzi an SVT profile/tv anchor, now an author. Isn't that amazing? It happens that we know her hubby Lars.

Her book is about "John Lenon". "Jävla John" in swedish or "Bloody John" in direct english *lol

Amazingly, we ended at the Scandic Continental Hotel, located right in the heart the city.

Do you know the reason why she held her launched party in this hotel? Well, "The Beatles" stayed in this hotel, when they visited Stockholm in year 1963. It's just like yesterday.
After mingle moments, we went down to the hotel bar and the live band waited us there. They played of course, Beattles songs!

Below are some interesting pictures: unfortunately, the staffs don't know in w/c of these rooms John Lenon checked IN, therefore we got these 2 rooms to mingle in... Room 205 & 206 "I just can't imagine he spew in one of the toilets ---in there"!!!

Me & Liz at Room 206>>

Thoughts that strike my Mind: TODAY...TY for sharing

Still at home and having all the rest to get better from the pneumonia, insomnia and other "mnias" words. I been browsing the cyber world quite awhile and ended UP to someone close and this is the message that caught my mind.


She said:
It's when you happen to know that there is just no hope for you being together yet you still pray to make it work.
"it's when your mind says let go but you heart tells you to hold on.
it's when you dream of that person almost every night only to wake up in the morning with tears in your eyes.

and most of all...
it's when no matter how you try to forget that person, you just can't... cause the fact that you love that person and you just don't know why"

I might be damn crazy but every words she uttered was true. Sometimes, when someone fall in love to "someone", everything feels so real and vulnerable. But hey! open up UR mind, you might be asleep or dreaming? No! i howled back. "Am full awake and i know it's for real". But, suddenly "someone" tripped my foot & then i realized that the thoughts are just in my mind and not for real.
In the other hand, the other "someone" is for real too? but do you think his feelings for real? We have to wait and see if he's real & the feeling's real. If we see it? then he'll be here for me to save me, the spiritually feelings we have, if there's one?
Am always mixing things UP that sometimes I ended up to a screwed life!!!

A bit crazy thoughts! Do you think am CRAZY? Yes, world...kick my butt back if I am.Thanks for listening my whimpering morning. I guess this is the outcome of my heavy dosage of the anti-bios? *lol

Mosquito Net, why use them?

Yeah, am still struggling w/ my pneumonia and this is the 2nd week now. My fever still there and it won't ease!

Anyway, i have to do something different from what I used to do, "i thought" but there's nothing different from what i used to do, though! Eh! screwed up again?

<< new generation's mosquito net"

I was layin' down on my bed and was thinking what to post next in my left behind blogg §:-)
And suddenly, it come across my mind MOSQUITO NET! hey! when I was young, I wonder why we used mosquito nets? I heard different stories from my old folks. Scary, funny storie As i know now, they always tell us a "story telling a lie" *giggles heaps*



It happened that when Lizah was 6 yrs old, we went to the area where I grew up in the countryside. It was a nice quite place, long from the stressy mode and away from everything but so near to the crazy civil war.

After awhile LIzah starts to have fever & started to have nosebleed & that's the sign of a "dengue fever"

Mosquito nets protects from mosquitoes, flies and other insects and tropical countries really need to use this for protection from malaria. Mosquito nets are often used where malaria or other insect-borne diseases are common, especially as a tent-like covering over a bed.

For effectiveness, it is important that the netting not have holes or gaps large enough to allow insects to enter. Because insects can bite through the net, the net must not rest directly on the skin.

Hey! i know that mosquito nets protects from lizards, spiders and all small creepy things. I hate them!

So, FOLKS, when you visit wherever tropical country you wanted to visit, always think the mosquito nets. You can buy them where you are and in a very reasonable prices.
Pls. press this link for more information about the diseases from mosquitoes_
Malaria & etc.

AWWW...sickie and bored!!!

It's been awhile am home due to the influenza i got!

I don't know what to do next? It feels boring doing nothing at home. ANd? i don't have the energy to do all the household chores either.
The packing is forgotten... i been surfing day & night just to make something different but now I don't have any ideas to post anymore.

I just cough & cough & more coughing day in & day out. I feel so tired though can't sleep. Funny thing, that i heard from my half that i was talking while sleeping. He's been there to listen but unfortunately, ununderstandnable! Luckily enough, NOT! "bayag gaingon ko akong kasing-kagol kang kigwa" fatay ang beauty nako doh?
SAKSPAN! unta ko no? He move to the spare room so, he can sleep deeply. Hmmmm...now he knows how i felt when i laid beside him while he's snoring. This isn't just last night, folks? It's been ages! well, specially this past 3-4 yrs §:-)

Hope he won't read this post....

OK..this is all for now!!!
PEACE OUT!

Lent: What is it? why is it? When is Easter?

Here's some learnings why christians celebrates lent & easter. Different countries have their own traditions how to celebrate this season.

Philippines for instance. The country practiced catholicism since 15th century. HOLY WEEK is the time of crowded churches.

LENT:
The highlight of the year for Christians is Easter, the day when our Lord rose from the dead. Lent is a forty-day season of preparation for Easter. Lent always begins on a Wednesday, called Ash Wednesday.

40 days? Why? Because, Jesus fasted and was tempted in the wilderness for 40 days. Lent, then, is our time of fasting, prayer, temptation and repentance. Lent is not required anywhere in scriptures, but it has been a custom, which Christians have practiced for most of the last two thousand years.

EASTER:
According to the New Testament, Christ was crucified on the eve of Passover and shortly afterward rose from the dead. In consequence, the Easter festival commemorated Christ's resurrection.

Easter festival should be celebrated throughout the Christian world on the first Sunday after the full moon following the vernal equinox; and that if the full moon should occur on a Sunday and thereby coincide with the Passover festival, Easter should be commemorated on the Sunday following. Coincidence of the feasts of Easter and Passover was thus avoided.



More informations: pls press this link: HOLY WEEK

Today is LOVE DAY

Being loved & be loved is the most wonderful feeling's oneself can get! I'm so blessed that 2 people love me so dearly. I will cherish this moment till the end!

I LOVE YOU...

(¯`´•.¸ ¸.•´´¯ `,+.*`,+♥. I wish for you lots of love
’ *..`’ °´..`’ °´.*’ °´..`’ °´.´♥ Warm memories to share
___####___#### .-.´.+` ´°♥ May you always find some comfort
_##____#_#____##`,+.*.*´.°♥ In knowing others care
#__ _________ ___]# `+.*`.° ♥ May you always have your health
#_____LOVE_______# `,+.*`..♥ And a home to keep you warm
_#______________.# `,+.*`,+.*♥ The love of friends and family
__#____________# `,+.*`,°*`’ °♥ Protection from all harm
_____#_______# `,+.*`,+.*`,+.♥,*.*. * . ** . *.*,*.*. * . ** . *.*
_______#___# `,+.*`,+.*`,+.*♥ My wish for you is harmony
_________# `,+.*`,+.*`,+.*`♥ And all your dreams come true
’ *..`’ °´..`’ °´.*’ °´..`’ °´..`.♥ The riches of life's pleasures
(¯`´•. ¸ ¸.•´´¯ `,+.*`,+.♥ Made special just for you
(¨`•.•´¨)¸.•´(¯`´•.¸ ¸.•´´¯ `,*.*. * . ** . *.*,*.*. * . ** . *.*
`•.¸.•´(¨`•.•´¨) As you walk along lifes journey
`•.¸(¨`•.•´¨) May you always find your way

(¨`•.•´¨) (¨`•.•´¨)
.`•.¸(¨`•.•´¨)¸.•´.
**** `•.¸.•´****...hugs CHIE

MONTH'S BIRTHDAY CELEBRANT

Hello Manding!!!
How's the feelings of a teenage LADY???

Hope U have a wonderful DAY & hope Micha helps you blew all those candles, how many was it? MORE HEALTHY YEARS TO COME!

Greetings & Hugs,
Oray
Inse
Iya

10 Commandments of LOVE

I GUESS WE HAVE TO GIVE AN ULTIMATUM TO OUR HOUSEBANDS LADIES? HMMMM...AM I RIGHT?

What if men read this! They might hang & lit fire on me. Do you think so? Tell me then if am right with my commandments.

ONE
I am thy Main Squeeze;
thou shalt squeeze no others before me.

TWO
Thou shalt not take the name
of thy Squeeze in vain, nor
badmouth me behind my back.

THREE
Remember our Anniversary,
and keep it holy. Or else.


FOUR
Honor MY mother and father.
THINE are too darn weird.

FIVE
Thou shalt not kill my love by
behaving tackily and making me
embarrassed to be seen with thee.

SIX
Thou shalt not commit adultery,
nor shalt thou even THINK about it
if thou knowest what's good for thee.

SEVEN
Thou shalt not steal from my purse/wallet
while I am in thy bathroom, nor use
my credit cards, nor make long-distance
calls from my telephone.


EIGHT
Thou shalt not talk about our personal
problems to our friends.

NINE
Thou shalt not covet the higher
market price of thy neighbor's house.

TEN
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's
Squeeze, nor son or daughter,
nor stereo, nor BMW.